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Crisis Grounding Toolkit

Emergency techniques for when you're in crisis, feeling unsafe, or experiencing intense distress. These tools are designed to help when you can barely think straight.

Content note

This is a grounding toolkit for moments of crisis. If you're in danger or thinking about harming yourself, please use the crisis resources below first.

In crisis? Call or text 988, text HOME to 741741, or call 911. See crisis support.

Crisis Grounding Toolkit

⚠️ Safety First

If you are in immediate danger or having thoughts of suicide or self-harm:

  • Call 988 (Suicide & Crisis Lifeline)
  • Text HOME to 741741 (Crisis Text Line)
  • Call 911 if you are in immediate physical danger
  • Go to your nearest emergency room

You are not alone. Help is available 24/7.

When Everything Feels Too Much

Crisis moments can feel impossible to navigate. These tools are designed to work even when your brain feels offline.

Immediate Actions (Do These First)

1. Physical Grounding

  • Hold ice cubes in your hands
  • Splash cold water on your face and wrists
  • Press your feet firmly into the ground
  • Squeeze your hands into fists and release

2. Sensory Anchoring

  • Name 5 things you can see (say them out loud)
  • Listen for 4 sounds around you
  • Touch 3 different textures near you
  • Notice 2 scents you can smell
  • Taste 1 thing (gum, mint, water)

3. Breathing Reset

  • 4-7-8 breathing: Inhale for 4, hold for 7, exhale for 8
  • Box breathing: 4 counts in, hold 4, out 4, hold 4
  • Just breathe: If counting is too hard, just focus on your breath

If You Can Think a Little Clearer

Reach Out

  • Text a friend: "I'm struggling right now"
  • Call a helpline: 988 or Crisis Text Line
  • Use your phone: Open a calming app or playlist

Simple Comfort

  • Wrap yourself in a blanket
  • Drink something warm (tea, hot chocolate)
  • Listen to familiar music or sounds
  • Hold a comfort object (stuffed animal, smooth stone)

Move Your Body

  • Gentle stretching
  • Walk around your space
  • Rock back and forth
  • Shake out your hands and arms

Quick Decision Tree

Can you think clearly?

  • Yes → Use the full grounding sequence above
  • No → Focus only on physical grounding and sensory anchoring

Are you safe where you are?

  • Yes → Continue with comfort and movement techniques
  • No → Call 911 or go somewhere safe immediately

Do you have someone to call?

  • Yes → Reach out to them now
  • No → Call 988 or text HOME to 741741

Remember

  • Crisis moments are temporary - they will pass
  • You've survived difficult moments before - you have that strength
  • It's okay to ask for help - reaching out is brave, not weak
  • One moment at a time - you don't have to figure everything out right now

After the Crisis

When you feel more stable:

  • Drink water and eat something if you can
  • Rest - crisis takes a lot of energy
  • Be gentle with yourself - you just navigated something really hard
  • Consider reaching out to a therapist, counselor, or trusted friend
  • Plan for next time - what worked? What would help?

This toolkit is designed to complement, not replace, professional mental health care. If you're experiencing ongoing mental health challenges, please consider reaching out to a mental health professional.

This guide is supportive and educational — not therapy, diagnosis, or treatment.